Holy shit this sucks (Girl/family problems ;__;)

[Frosty]

1,033 Views. . . anyway nothing to see here now since i have sorted out my life (Kinda)


Girl problems still stand but better and since the meeting date is not long away it should get better or worse.

Mother has moved in with her husband to be (Still not really met the guy) but that means i have a place to myself (and my bro) so things are looking up.

I need to learn to look at myself in a better way though. . . i really put myself down all the time and i really need to sort that out.

Anyway bye bye.

[Frosty]

Sorry that it is so long but if you could read it and help me it might make things better. . i really hope i get some good luck soon. . .

[Darkatomz]

if you think she's keeping you on a rope going nowhere, you have to end it, period. get over the fact that you like her, it's not helping you unfortunately.

[Frosty]

Originally Posted by Darkatomz

if you think she's keeping you on a rope going nowhere, you have to end it, period. get over the fact that you like her, it's not helping you unfortunately.

Hmm this actuly helped me allot. . **** it was all i could think about for an hour then i fell asleep for an hour then woke up 2 hours after. . . ****ed up i have had very little sleep yet i am wide awake. . .

Clerks sure makes my morning better. . . i think the reason i was so worked up about it was that i really suck with women but as i just realised . . i don't. . . I'm much more social than i used to be. . . damn i never actully realised it.

But yeah i thought that if i lost her then i lost any chance i had with a woman. . . now that i think about it she has done nothing but made me life hell. . . i should look for a girl that loves me i suppose. . might be the smart thing.

Anyway thanks allot. . would enjoy other opinions on what i should do. . . also i plan to go away for a few days when i turn 18 in 15 days . . . anyone got any idea of where i should go? Only been to england and france . . . and i only speak english. .

But yeah thanks man.

[fast1]

i think you should end it dude, changing your likes and want you love is only going to work for the short term, if you turn the tables on her, would she do likewise? i think both of you deserve to find someone more suited for each other, just my opinion.

[Stephy]

Got to agree with Darkatomz. She's messing you around, she isn't considering you at all imo and I really do think it would be better for you just to walk away. I think you deserve to be treated with a lot more respect than you have been so far tbh and as for your mother.....it's tough I know, I've been there but, you're nearly 18 so what she does with her life doesnt have to affect you too much now, you will build your own life and hopefully things will work out good for her and for you and if you lay off the weed and the booze you're going to have a better chance of that happening (if you arent eating properly and youre drinking and smoking then that will make you puke).

You pretty much rock Frosty. Yeah you have issues but, you know you do and you recognise them so basically, you own your problems so take control and kick them up the ass. Sorry if my reply is boring/not what you wanted to read. I guess a reply from kung would be more fun ("get a ****ing life you ****ing retarded knob, love kung" ), shame he did a runner .

[thedeathscythe]

@ that girl: if shes not gonna end it with you, end it with her. shes keeping you as back up, leaving you on the backburner as a trump card in case the thing with that guy doesnt work. imo, get rid of her. dont even talk to her as a friend. tell her that you dont want to be around her anymore and thats it thats all.

@ your mum: that sucks dude. tell her how you feel. dont just be mad/disappointed. when someone pisses me off or lets me down. I tell em. Im not angry or whiney about it, Im flat out and honest "you said youd pick me up tickets and you didnt, I didnt get any for myself since you told me you were going to. now I dont have any tickets, but honestly dude, you just really let me down" (thats something I told a friend of mine after he was gonna get me cannibal corpse tickets and didnt) just tell her how it is. hell tell that girl how it is too

@ 420: you didnt have to skip uni for it and smoke all day. isnt he point of 420 to smoke at exactly 420? I dont do drugs but i thought the point was to do it at that time, and even in a big crowd, like in my city people meet at the parliament building and do it there. since theres 400 of them smoking up the cops dont arrest them (they do arrest the ones selling though) and theyre also just there to make sure theres no fighting or anything. to keep the peace

[Black Label]

I only read your post. First off, in my experiences, and I have them, every chick I've been interested in that has said shit about not being able to be in relationships and not being able to love anyone, it's bullshit. She doesn't like you but likes you as a friend, period.

If she leads you on in any sort of way, give up, period. It won't work, trust me.

And it's the internet, I wouldn't change anything about me for someone I met on the internet. If you changed for her and you're unhappy you did, think about what you said. You lost weight, which is good despite how you lost it. You quit looking/acting nerdy by dropping games and anime, which will help you out in real life.

All and all, take the experiences you gained from her and take from what we all said in whatever way you want to. This can only help you in the future.

I was just recently majorly ****ed over by a girl who actually liked me but still loved her ex, so I know how you feel.

And, to help you out, go get a chick drunk, any chick you could ****, and then **** them.

[Black Label]

And, never, ever change yourself for a girl. Ever. If she can't take you for what you are, then **** her. This is why I have issues with relationships because let's face it, I'm a ****ed up person. I act the same way in my day to day life that I do on here, I am a dick to everyone and I make jokes at anything. But I have found girls who accepted that and my bad habits.

But if a girl does want you to quit doing drugs because she actually cares about you and not what her friends think, then it's worth it. That's the only time.

[loca]

Jump,